Originally posted 2008-04-21 12:15:34.
Hey, what’s this thing I can see before me? 4 on this side, 4 on this other side, and a shorter one each on both sides…?
Originally posted 2008-04-21 12:15:34.
Hey, what’s this thing I can see before me? 4 on this side, 4 on this other side, and a shorter one each on both sides…?
Originally posted 2010-06-13 13:38:55.
Would you do it?
I took the kids for a swim again this morning. Yesterday’s experience tells me that they enjoy hanging around underneath the simple man-made waterfall at the other end of the pool, where there are two major streams and some trickles like heavy rain falling onto the pool from about 4 feet above water. WIth Caitlin’s cossie that houses the 2 front and back floats on, I could focus most of my attention on Caleb who doesn’t have any floats yet; at the deeper end of the pool of 4.5 feet (?), at the grounds of our condo.
This morning, while enjoying the sensation of water gush-falling onto our heads, I looked around and saw that, in between the plastic grating of the pool’s perimeter drain, were a pair of bird wings sticking out. A pigeon-sized bird too.
Yuck, a dead bird. I thought. Better get out of here soon, alert someone to rid of it before it gets septic and get into the general pool water.
I pointed it to Caitlin, justified that we can’t / shouldn’t stay much longer ‘cos of germs from a dead animal. I also didn’t want to just leave it there. So I thought to leave these 2 kids as brief as I could in the 1.5 feet baby pool, which is actually just next to the waterfall, and try to rid of the carcass myself without leaving them alone too long.
After shifting them there, I soon found a stick at the nearby BBQ pit, and went back to try and fish the carcass out.
As I shifted the gratings to widen the gap for easy access, the bird moved / jerked.
I tried and positioned the stick under its feet, hoping that it would at least make it easy for both of us to lift it out of the water. But that first movement was the only movement I saw. Clearly it was already nearing death.
I can only imagine that it fell into that bit of gap with its wings up and above its body, unable to get up and out. With most of its body submerged in water in all that time; possibly also its head, it is clearly already dying from exhaustion and being in water for so long, for a bird.
It tried to open its eyes but obviously too exhausted; mustering maybe an inhale every second- I don’t think birds breathe that slowly in general.
Pinching one of its wings and supporting the rest of its body on the stick, I fished-lifted it out, and placed it in the shade under some nearby bushes. I thought of putting it under the sun for quick drying, but that may actually make things worse.
At least it wasn’t a decomposing bit of animal polluting the water, I thought, and the kids are kinda safe in the water.
But what about the poor animal?
I personally didn’t and don’t have the heart to put it out of its misery, much less infront of or for the kids’ knowledge. But the poor animal clearly will not make it, and is suffering.
I pointed Caitlin to where the bird lay (under the bushes near the baby pool where they were), and said that it will likely die soon, and pouted my lips at her. She was sad too, but not too much, and remarked that it’s okay, the mummy bird can make more baby birds.
Not much of an animal lover, I see.
But back to the bird- what would you have done about it?
Originally posted 2008-09-28 21:26:52. “Daddee…. DADDee…. DADDEE….” No, no; “Mummee…. MUMMee…. MUMMEE…..” No, no; “Jie jie…. JIE JIE!” (Yes, even Caitlin now understands the prestige that comes with this!)
Originally posted 2011-03-04 21:53:23.
When I was home my kids would be all over my iPhone for the games. I have blogged before about how Caitlin plays a particular zoo management game; and Caleb too would have a few of his favourites.
Games, or apps for that matter, usually get updated by the developers. Either to add in new features, bug fixes, to be more updated; in particular with games, new scenes or characters would be added. With the zoo game that Caitlin plays, I have seen new animals and rangers being added when they are updated.
So now that I am away from home I have removed most of the games that were on the iPhone. For that matter I have also removed some of the security features- there were a few times when Caleb had unintentionally deleted my apps and info; he didn’t know better, of course.
So now when I check for updates of my apps, some of these installed games would indicate that there are updates available.
I don’t update them now.
And I kinda feel guilty, and sad.
Guilty because, even though they are games- I only install educational games or at least non-violent games; they do teach something to the kids. Hand-eye coordination, math games, basic strategies (the zoo management game), or simply interacting with “tools” that will become even bigger parts of their adult lives compared to us now. Guilty because I have taken away this opportunity/”toy” away from them.
And sad. I miss them.
Posted in A father's POV, Caitlin the heiress, Caleb the heir, Ergonomics, The future
Tagged games, growing up
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Originally posted 2009-03-13 00:19:53. Caitlin likes to go shopping. Make the slightest inkling that we are going shopping and her adrenalin gets pumping. Typical female I guess. But at least for now she is not keen on checking out shoes…. … Continue reading
Originally posted 2009-02-17 23:44:02.
Caleb turned 1 in Jan ’09.
Today he did these….

And then, for the first time(s?) in his life, he stood!
The following pic was actually not the first time he managed to stand. That first time that he did manage to stand, we broke into cheers and applause that frightened him, and literally made him weak at the knees!
But it wasn’t long before he managed again!

Well done, son! Heh heh!
So, soon he will be a walking babbling little boy for the rest of us to chase!
DAh-DAH-DAH duh duh duh…nnnnnnnnnnnnnnn na-na-na….
Generally, do babies start walking first, or start talking first? I can’t remember this for Caitlin; I do remember that she started walking when she was still in her nappies with an external anti-wet shorts, similar to the ones Caleb is wearing above!
Posted in A father's POV, A toddler's POV, Caleb the heir, Infant development, milestones, Parenting musing, Short post, Simple pleasures
Tagged baby, milestones, skills, trouble
Originally posted 2008-05-02 14:22:11.
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Taking the cue from the comment on checking my own old photos and comparing them to my kids now, I thought I’d do this comparison!
I was actually naked in that picture! No, not shy, just that its easier doing a mugshot comparison this way.
When looking at the photos, I couldn’t help thinking why it is that kids were allowed to be naked like I was, on those days, when these days we are so concerned about quickly clothing our kids for fear of them catching a cold? If anything, this tropical climate should be warmer from global warming!