Comments on: Patience during disciplining a child http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/ A working Daddee learning to cope in a big big world Fri, 09 Dec 2011 23:03:56 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: Becoming a Dad the first time: Was it what you expected it to be? | Daddee Yah! http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/comment-page-1/#comment-872 Becoming a Dad the first time: Was it what you expected it to be? | Daddee Yah! Fri, 20 Jun 2008 07:50:22 +0000 http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/#comment-872 [...] this, I intend to befriend my kids. I will still scold and spank if necessary, but I want to use a participatory-but-guide style on them, rather than I am dad and you shall [...] [...] this, I intend to befriend my kids. I will still scold and spank if necessary, but I want to use a participatory-but-guide style on them, rather than I am dad and you shall [...]

]]> By: Child disciplining | Daddee Yah! http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/comment-page-1/#comment-188 Child disciplining | Daddee Yah! Fri, 14 Dec 2007 05:17:56 +0000 http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/#comment-188 [...] have written about this before, and one local comment I got was that they do not use their hand to spank; rather [...] [...] have written about this before, and one local comment I got was that they do not use their hand to spank; rather [...]

]]> By: Moomykin http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/comment-page-1/#comment-31 Moomykin Mon, 01 Oct 2007 16:58:11 +0000 http://www.daddeeyah.com/2007/09/17/patience-during-disciplining-a-child/#comment-31 I know spanking is a very sensitive issue for a lot of parents, for and against. Personally I "spank" my 3 year old boy too, but I use a cane. Reason: The hand is a symbol of love and should not be confused with pain and hurt. At least if she gets any smart ideas of "getting away from spanking" she can try getting rid of the cane, but she can't get rid of "dad". My dad also said this to me before, that when you use your hand you do make quite serious physical damage because most of the time you can't quite control/know your strength. The cane causes pain on the surface but won't even bruise. No worries bout breaking bones. Personal story: I remembered when I was maybe 5 and my older sis 7, she stuffed a cane down the rubbish shoot (we stayed in a flat then) and told me she hid it there so that mom could not find it. I was not so bright and after she ran off, I opened the shoot and was totally puzzled by "where is the cane now?" I know spanking is a very sensitive issue for a lot of parents, for and against. Personally I “spank” my 3 year old boy too, but I use a cane. Reason: The hand is a symbol of love and should not be confused with pain and hurt. At least if she gets any smart ideas of “getting away from spanking” she can try getting rid of the cane, but she can’t get rid of “dad”.

My dad also said this to me before, that when you use your hand you do make quite serious physical damage because most of the time you can’t quite control/know your strength. The cane causes pain on the surface but won’t even bruise. No worries bout breaking bones.

Personal story: I remembered when I was maybe 5 and my older sis 7, she stuffed a cane down the rubbish shoot (we stayed in a flat then) and told me she hid it there so that mom could not find it. I was not so bright and after she ran off, I opened the shoot and was totally puzzled by “where is the cane now?”

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